SineSwiper wrote:I'm just saying that the 0.00001% have a confirmation bias that makes their worldview rose-tinted.
Confirmation bias? No, it's a requirement to even be considered the lucky 0.001% to get there. The sheer volume of dedication, excessively hard work, and perserverence (for many different reasons, including those Shrin pointed out) required to get there cannot be undermined just because such a select few ever make it a reality. You still need to try and trying requires everything Hatfield talked about
Nurture your kids dreams, don't destroy them. Sure, it involves a TON of reality checking along the way and the requisite adjustments that result from those. But that don't mean your kid shouldn't try