So this week has had my head spinning around and around. It all started this Monday when my girlfriend of 4 months wanted to move in with me. I have a 1 bedroom to myself, while she lives in a 3 bedroom with 2 roomies who happen to be a couple. She's grown tired of having to deal with living with said couple and being the confident for both parties and constantly tells me how much she dislikes living there because of this and the fact it does not feel like her home. I spend almost every night at her place even though its 50 miles to work for me in LA traffic so I drive 100 miles a day if I see her or spend the night. I love my girlfriend and I can understand her situation but I was in no way ready to have her move in as much as it sounds 'nice' at times. So I decide why not she can move in, but hey how will I tell my parents.... I may be 22 and have a degree and a good paying job but lord knows I still feel indebted to them at times. Her roomies cannot find someone to move into her room and she'd have to pay the rent or buy out of the lease, which she could not afford to do. So she ask me if I want to move in with her and cancel the lease on my apartment early. My landlord is cool and would not lose my deposit or have to pay out the remainder of the lease.
So I think about it but once again it comes down to how I tell my family I'm living with a girlfriend of 4 months and I canceled the lease to my own place and now have a new address and all that good shit. So she gets upset over the fact I put so much into respecting my parents and not doing something along this lines (which is stupidity to me and anyone else I talked to). So she's upset with her living situation and I come to find out her roomies have been fighting and themselves are on the verge of a breakup and I ask her if she think they would have stayed together so long if they had not moved in together, her response was yes, they would have broken up.
So in all this insanity my girlfriend tells me I am not at the same place in my life as her, and she is hoping I'll grow into who she thinks she loves. But last I checked I have a 4 year degree, my own apartment, my own car, bills I can easily afford, and money to drive down and spend it on her. She on the other hand has no degree or GED, works in a similar field and makes 28,000 in salary (which was her bosses attempt to fuck her over on the amount of overtime she puts in and the number of jobs she has to do). I on the other hand make 45,000 a year hourly and make other money doing freelance websites and design. I don't like my job much, but its only there for me to get experience. She on the other hand loves her job and the stress that seems to come from it.
I don't get where she is in her life that I'm not. I don't get stressed about work, I'm fairly easy going, and I treat her well. I wish she was more cuddly and wanted sex more often to be honest, and I've been the catalyst in her no longer smoking pot. I know she had a fucked up life, and was on some hardcore drugs a few years back, and is getting life put together.
this week has fucking drained me, im going to pass out when i get home and sleep
apparently she's giving her roomates a months notice and finding a new place with other people so she can be out of the situation because it has partially effected our relationship. I don't know
So I think about it but once again it comes down to how I tell my family I'm living with a girlfriend of 4 months and I canceled the lease to my own place and now have a new address and all that good shit. So she gets upset over the fact I put so much into respecting my parents and not doing something along this lines (which is stupidity to me and anyone else I talked to). So she's upset with her living situation and I come to find out her roomies have been fighting and themselves are on the verge of a breakup and I ask her if she think they would have stayed together so long if they had not moved in together, her response was yes, they would have broken up.
So in all this insanity my girlfriend tells me I am not at the same place in my life as her, and she is hoping I'll grow into who she thinks she loves. But last I checked I have a 4 year degree, my own apartment, my own car, bills I can easily afford, and money to drive down and spend it on her. She on the other hand has no degree or GED, works in a similar field and makes 28,000 in salary (which was her bosses attempt to fuck her over on the amount of overtime she puts in and the number of jobs she has to do). I on the other hand make 45,000 a year hourly and make other money doing freelance websites and design. I don't like my job much, but its only there for me to get experience. She on the other hand loves her job and the stress that seems to come from it.
I don't get where she is in her life that I'm not. I don't get stressed about work, I'm fairly easy going, and I treat her well. I wish she was more cuddly and wanted sex more often to be honest, and I've been the catalyst in her no longer smoking pot. I know she had a fucked up life, and was on some hardcore drugs a few years back, and is getting life put together.
this week has fucking drained me, im going to pass out when i get home and sleep
apparently she's giving her roomates a months notice and finding a new place with other people so she can be out of the situation because it has partially effected our relationship. I don't know
