That helped clarify it. No sarcasm included.Seraphina wrote:*sigh* lolbyrdiebird wrote:I think I'm okay with that, actually. Especially considering I have no idea what PSN or XBL is...
She doesn't have a PS3 or a 360, so it doesn't matter anyway heh
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Well... going for the casual dating with her it seems. I guess I'm going to try dating others myself or just keep busier. And most importantly just think of it as getting to know someone and not expecting anything to happen
[ Maybe this will finally break me of the habit of thinking every girl I date is going to be the 'one' or not looking at all their faults and issues that will fuck up things later anyway. I have made it a habit in the past to fall in love too soon ]
Careful. Too much of that can get you into the mode that "Nobody is the one". Too thin, too fat, too bitchy, too meek, doesn't like enough interests, doesn't like your friends, etc., etc.Anarky wrote:[ Maybe this will finally break me of the habit of thinking every girl I date is going to be the 'one' or not looking at all their faults and issues that will fuck up things later anyway. I have made it a habit in the past to fall in love too soon ]
There's a balance to both.
Rosalina: But you didn't.
Robert: But I DON'T.
Rosalina: You sure that's right?
Robert: I was going to HAVE told you they'd come?
Rosalina: No.
Robert: The subjunctive?
Rosalina: That's not the subjunctive.
Robert: I don't think the syntax has been invented yet.
Rosalina: It would have had to have had been.
Robert: Had to have...had...been? That can't be right.
Robert: But I DON'T.
Rosalina: You sure that's right?
Robert: I was going to HAVE told you they'd come?
Rosalina: No.
Robert: The subjunctive?
Rosalina: That's not the subjunctive.
Robert: I don't think the syntax has been invented yet.
Rosalina: It would have had to have had been.
Robert: Had to have...had...been? That can't be right.
Kupek was right on page one.
As much as I tried to make it casual for myself it wasn't what I wanted. It boiled down to us liking one another but me wanting to be serious and her wanting to be casual and focus on eveything else in her life.
It ended on good terms... but I doubt we'll be talking.
It is a bit of a relief and also sad.
As much as I tried to make it casual for myself it wasn't what I wanted. It boiled down to us liking one another but me wanting to be serious and her wanting to be casual and focus on eveything else in her life.
It ended on good terms... but I doubt we'll be talking.
It is a bit of a relief and also sad.
Sorry man, we've all been there unfortunately. Luckily you were strong enough to end it before wasting any more time so kudos for that, I'm not sure I could have done the same.
Plenty of fish, yadda yadda, you'll find someone better who isn't so self absorbed soon enough.
Plenty of fish, yadda yadda, you'll find someone better who isn't so self absorbed soon enough.
It happens. Plenty of compatible people end up going their separate ways due to incompatible desires. Don't take it hard.Anarky wrote:Kupek was right on page one.
As much as I tried to make it casual for myself it wasn't what I wanted. It boiled down to us liking one another but me wanting to be serious and her wanting to be casual and focus on eveything else in her life.
It ended on good terms... but I doubt we'll be talking.
It is a bit of a relief and also sad.
It kind of makes it easier that it was an incompatibility and not some dragged out fight where I called her the c-word and she calls me a douche.Replay wrote:It happens. Plenty of compatible people end up going their separate ways due to incompatible desires. Don't take it hard.Anarky wrote:Kupek was right on page one.
As much as I tried to make it casual for myself it wasn't what I wanted. It boiled down to us liking one another but me wanting to be serious and her wanting to be casual and focus on eveything else in her life.
It ended on good terms... but I doubt we'll be talking.
It is a bit of a relief and also sad.
Trying to look on the positive, she was a really cool chick, we had some really fun dates. But now its done, and no real hard feelings or hurt to one another.