Haha, so in other words: arguably women are the only people required in society =)
I'm going to split this in two:
1. Heroic narrative - I think that it's just a matter of progressing with the times. The early 20th century heroic-narratives don't necessarily work with the progression of society. The whole male-bread-winner and female housewife model is relatively new, historically speaking. It is a symptom of the nuclear family and the expansion of the middle class. It also went out of style very quickly because the rise in skilled labour drove the monetary demand down, and so, relatively speaking, wages have dropped substantially, and so multiple family members were required. Realistically speaking, with the nuclearization of society, women couldn't just live with their parents if they were unmarried; there was going to be a burst, somewhere. It wasn't very long ago that men, women, and children almost all worked working class jobs: factory work in urbanized areas, and farm work in the rural areas - and prior to that specialization in work was not the norm, people did what they needed to do; but everyone contributed to putting bread on the table (aside from first/second estate classes, which were less than 3% of the population).
I do agree that a lot of people who don't really know what to do with themselves can fall into a "feral" state, but I think this goes both ways, male/female. I also think this is significantly less than in past times. I am not really sure that people have to do anything; we currently have a motive as a society to make everyone we can productive, but if we didn't require it, then we wouldn't really need to do this: if we have the capacity to painlessly support people who aren't needed to work and don't want to work, then who cares? If an automatic pricing and charging system exists in grocery stores, then why do we need 80 people on the payroll to come in and do the job that 2-3 support-type people can do instead? Scientists and visionaries are going to do it, regardless of the role - it is our current frontier, and that is a heroic narrative as well.
2. Society focused on the progress of women - This is something I wouldn't necessarily agree with. Society has largely been focused on the expansion of the middle class, and getting women into that was a major step - but not the only step, large debates have occurred about workers rights, medical, what should be privatized, and what is a government service. In recent times, in Canada at least, the largest gender related right gained was paternal leave; it quickly became normalized - it was unheard of just a decade ago.
3. Other Stuff
Progress, IMO, is the expansion of the population working to advance society. It's been expanding significantly in recent times, largely because we have substantially increased the size of the middle class - working class nations aren't contributing nearly as much to science and technology. The leisure class doesn't necessarily mean "unemployed" as many of them are self-employed, and are attempting to work on a new project: arts, sciences, and technology account for a lot of it. As the leisure class expands, so too does the number of people available for thinking and innovating ways to advance society. In the past this was largely limited to nobility and other upper class families: a very small stratum of the population - the upper class; in France, prior to the revolution, this amounted to just 3% (and France was the wealthiest nation in the world at the time, but it was almost completely controlled by the first and second estates), the other 97% were working class slobs; and among them, MANY underutilized minds fighting for survival.
If 90% of current jobs are replaced by machines over the next decade, that's progress; because then we have that 90% available for other tasks: new jobs in new fields, or thinking. The dilemma is how to support those people as we encourage technological advancement. We've been seeing this to some extent in some countries, European countries, and even beginning here in North America; some of the proposed solutions:
* Lowering the length of the work day.
* Basic income.
* Bring back old jobs.
I'm more of a fan of basic income, it is going to lead to the greatest additional freedom for the population; while option 1 is kind of a half-assed way of saying "We've got nothing, so let's expand the job market by allowing everyone their turn" and option 3 is regressive - as it means bringing back jobs that are obsolete.
Expanding the middle class was a good thing for progress, as it allowed people more leisure time; and therefore freedom. People have the freedom to leave occupations they don't like, and attempt to do something else; and that freedom is in the form of money for basic needs. Unfortunately, our current society only offers this luxury to people who have already been successful and University students who have been funded by the government or their parents (and this is dropping off in North America); we can do better. It is probably an inevitability at this point as technology moves moves more into automation.
This is a fairly interesting view: 90% of all the scientists in history are currently alive, that is how successful recent society has been:
https://futureoflife.org/2015/11/05/90- ... ive-today/
Expanding the leisure class to the majority of people in human society isn't a new idea, by far. Asimov had many books written on the subject (it accounted for 100% of the Solarians in the book The Naked Sun), Gene Roddenberry also looked in that direction. It's popular in science fiction.
PS. this wasn't complete off topic, just my take on why I think people living as videogamers isn't an issue