Yeah it's usually a database issue. We host the site on server space, and may not catch it. And he may be too busy (with work or some video game lol) to fix it right away. Feel free to message me elsewhere if it seems to go unnoticed! He has no intention of letting this place go away!
Being married to a programmer is like having a cat. You talk to it but you're never really sure if it hears you, much less comprehends what you say.